today one of the bagging boys was complaining to me about how on okcupid none of the women message him back and so whats even the point of trying. and then he starting blaming women saying that they are always saying “Oh I want to date a nice guy!” but when they meet someone like him who is obviously such a nice guy they won’t even give him a chance and instead all they want are *douchebags and jerks*
i was fuming. but i didn’t say anything bc i am so incapable of confrontation and I’m pretty sure he took that as me agreeing with him
and then, later, i was talking to another cashier about tattoos, and he interrupted with “Well, emily, you really shouldn’t get any tattoo, after all, they don’t really suit you” He HAS a tattoo. Like I wasn’t asking his opinion, and he can’t tell me what I should do with MY BODY.
And a DIFFERENT bagging boy (who asks me out, i turned down, and he has been dropping passive aggressive remarks about it every week since) tried to give me $20 to help with my ‘travels’ and said that he thought it was really brave of me to do something like go to Japan, and that he would be happy to give me advice on how to handle something like that, and how to manage “japanese men”. he has NEVER left the country. I didnt even know how to respond to that last remark.
He also now calls me sweetie and honey. he is only 3 years older than me.
I should’ve taken that $20.